I’ve always kept busy. I like schedules, plans, lists; I enjoy regimenting out my day, even when I complain of being tired and stressing. Staying busy is my way of attempting to control life, I think. It’s my way of keeping the power. I control the calendar, you see — not the other way around. I make all the decisions. I dictate life.
That’s not true, of course. Life has a way of doing what it will and taking you down its own path, regardless of what you thought would happen or planned to happen. And on days like Thanksgiving — days filled with pies, green bean casserole, my extended family and awesome boyfriend — I’m reminded of how fortunate, and thankful, I am for the many things in my life. And that I need to slow down and stop structuring everything. That I can, in fact, relax. (. . . Sometimes!)
On Thanksgiving 2009, I was preparing for my first column to debut in our local newspapers and traipsing over to my grandparents’ home for Turkey Day. This year, we’ll be welcoming everyone to my family’s house for the first time ever. Spencer and his parents, in town from New York, will be joining us, too — and I’m so excited everyone will be together! I’ll be baking today and tomorrow with Ciara, my darling cousin, and my little sister, Kate; we’ll be watching the Thanksgiving Day parade while writing out Christmas cards (want one?), an annual tradition.
When Spencer gets here, I’ll be making goo-goo eyes at him and thinking about how lucky I am to have met someone so wonderful at a time when I wasn’t sure that would be possible. When I was smarting from rejection and hopeful, but wondering if that was foolish. It wasn’t. I am grateful.
I will be with my mom and dad, grandma and grandpa — my aunts, uncles and cousin. We’ll be talking and sharing, and I’ll be taking photos. Exhaustion will probably set in by 6 p.m., but I’ll keep moving — and soaking up every awesome minute.
For my friends in the U.S., here’s hoping this finds you all happy, well and enjoying the holiday with those closest to you! I’ll soon be noshing on pumpkin pie and Southern Maryland stuffed ham (the greatest!), and I hope you all have a very happy Thanksgiving.
Hope you have a good thanksgiving!
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Your Thanksgiving sounds wonderful! I’m so glad there is Spencer in your life too! :–) Happy Thanksgiving!
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It sounds like you’re going to have a fabulous holiday. Happy Thanksgiving!
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Happy Thanksgiving! Sounds like you have a delightful day planned.
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Happy Thanksgiving, Meg. I just sent off a postcard to you yesterday and just slipping it in the mailbox made me smile. I hope you have a lovely day tomorrow — blessings all around.
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Ahhhh darling I hope you have a splendid holiday! You deserve it 🙂
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Happy Thanksgiving Meg! What is a Southern Maryland stuffed ham?
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Thanks, Melissa — happy Thanksgiving to you, too!
A Southern Maryland stuffed ham is a local “delicacy” — a ham packed with a mixture of kale, cabbage, mustard seed, red pepper, black pepper, onion and a variety of other spices. The “stuffing” is mixed together and then packed tightly into the ham, which is then broiled or baked. It’s very delicious — but an acquired taste! (And it makes your house very, um… well, fragrant.)
This is what that process looks like! (And it’s even messier in person.)
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Enjoy your Thanksgiving – it sounds like you have a fantastic family day planned.
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Wishing you a happy and relaxful Thanksgiving. I think I made that word up!
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You are truly blessed. There is no better feeling in your life when everything seems to come together. And it seems like that has happened for you. Have a great holiday!
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Happy Thanksgiving to you too – enjoy the day with your family!
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happy thanksgiving to you too! hope you have an amazing time with your friends and family!
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Have a wonderful Thanksgiving. Enjoy all the family and friends.
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This sounds like a wonderful day..enjoy! Happy Thanksgiving 😀
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Happy Thanksgiving, Meg!
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Your Thanksgiving sounds lovely! Happy Turkey Day!
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Happy Thanksgiving, hope that you have a wonderful time celebrating with your family!
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This is a beautiful post, and it sounds like your day will be very memorable!
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Hope you had a great Thanksgiving Meg!
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hope it was happy, friend. you’ve been true blue since my days over at curly wurly. i’m happy things have really turned out for you–you deserve it. xoxoxo from your buddy in nj, home of marcus flutie.
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Aw, this post made me so happy Meg! It’s great to see you so hopeful and happy right now 🙂
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